reminded every day
So i dated a girl that i thought was going to be the one, both on my perspective and because she brought it up daily to me. dated two years, things were great. moved in together after x months, then got a place together closer to work, everything was great. out of no where, she breaks it all off and gives no explanation other than "space." since we had a newly signed lease at her demand (to build up credit to buy a place), she begged to live together for financial reasons. being the one who didnt want it to end, i said ok, and we laid boundaries. this was march. by april, it wasnt something i could handle any longer and went on a vacation. i came back to find she had subletted a place, took what she wanted, and left me a note. i was crushed. two weeks later she got robbed, and moved back in when i was away on business. again, i'm a sucker, i let her stay on the couch and gave her a deadline. i went to NY in May/June for x weeks, came back and again she is gone, with more of "our stuff" missing. ok, gets tougher, she works in my building, on my floor. i came back after vaca in october to find out she had moved to the space directly and closest to my showroom, essentially x feet away. we agreed on "no contact" but of course she finds a reason to be seen or heard every day. she is dating a friend of a good friend, who now no longer talks to me. i got to keep the dog, yet she texts me to see the dog daily. all in all, i'm still somehow in love with this girl.ive never been hurt deeper and with no merit (never cheated, paid for mostly everything,helped her out of a terrible job and start her own bix, etc.). i'm considering moving back to NY where i KNOW i wont have to see her every day any longer but i have an amazing job and place and friends here. i'd like advice on dealing with seeing an ex-girlfriend nearly every single day since you broke up, dealing with her moving on so easily and quickly, and also in doing the right things in hopes that one day there might be hope. i care that much for her. thanks in advance, happy holidays!